Yes your video device seem very old with very little memory and for laptop? I don't think you can use it for working with the engine doing anything else than text or image based sth or it become very slow. Anyways about the -w3d option just add -w3d -diag inside preferences on the command line options like in the picture above. What is your current screen resolution? About the nexus in my picture it shows -nx 100 which means nexus 100.