Yeah, using the .fbx option is probably the best for that. Also, maybe see if the 3ds MAX manuals have anything to say about game export; I know that in the versions I've bought/upgraded (v3 to v6) has info specifically about games...not sure if they kept that in the later versions of MAX...
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"We've got a blind date with destiny...and it looks like she's ordered the lobster."
