Writing my own is in some way tempting, but I do not consider myself - how do I put this - well, exactly gifted in design matters. I can recognize and appreciate good design, but I never got to be good at it myself.
And in some way, it is too much work for a website I am just managing for the heck of it, and to be honest, want to spend as few time as possible on.
But thanks for your advice anyways.

@mpdeveloper: the design is somewhat neat, but does not actually work for me, i suppose. but thanks anyways.

any more suggestions are definitly welcome, but otherwise i will just stick with freshy, its fine right now,

thanks guys