Don't you feel that we (users) are alone on this forum ?
I know what you mean. When you have hit a road block where you are waiting for help perhaps the best idea is to find another part of your game to work on. Just be patient and dont switch engines just yet and your answer will come soon. Ironically you will probably not need Conitec at all, you will probably figure out a new way of solving the problem. I wish I could help you out more.

~Good Luck