well, i understand where ur coming from, i myself wouldnt call myself a good game programmer but i'd like to think i'm a good game 'designer', i've written design docs before... i'd be willing to play a part in its design but will not be able to place alot of time on it... pm me and we'll see how far this can go...
-minor question am sure everyone here would like to kno are:
how long have u been with 3dgs?
what are ur skills? modelling? scripting? etc?
am sure others will ask more questions, good luck with this

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ps... i get critical sometimes and if i think a game idea will fail i wont work on it, especially if the author of said idea isnt willing to reason and make changes...
dark out.