i state that you can not chose who you like or dislike. you can ruin love but you can not force it, or chose it, or change it for yourself.
you pick your partners based on comfort. this has nothing to to with ethical or not.
its just easier for you, thats all.
this might make life and relationship easier but for sure it doesnt make it better or happier.
if you exclude persons just because they dont match any fake and exchangable criteria you set up, you will miss a lot in live and in love.
viewing it from this point not the wheelchair is the handicap but someones attitude and mind.