i state that you can not chose who you like or dislike.
That's simply not true. People will always have their preferences and this will naturally exclude all kinds of types of people.
if you exclude persons just because they dont match any fake and exchangable criteria you set up, you will miss a lot in live and in love.
Those criteria aren't fake nor really exchangeable at all. They are what they are because of who I am.
viewing it from this point not the wheelchair is the handicap but someones attitude and mind.
Yeah, but falling in love isn't as random as you seem to think. I could very much like someone in a wheelchair for sure, but I could never fall in love with such a person knowing what the implications would be. That has nothing to do with neither the wheelchair nor my attitude or mind. It's just how I would feel about it, which would naturally prevent me from falling in love with such a person.
if you exclude persons just because they dont match any fake and exchangable criteria you set up, you will miss a lot in live and in love.
Contrary to what you seem to suggest here, it has nothing to do with common sense overruling feelings effectively excluding people either, it's simply based on feelings as much as falling in love itself is.
By the way, excluding people is part of my sexuality anyway, as I am heterosexual, not bi-sexual.
