idk, there is a sort of camaraderie to a forum though. for instance, Ive got into it a little with some forum members (none pop to mind immediately) but i hold no ill will, and i laugh at others the same way that people should laugh at me. Its nothing personal against the OP, its a lesson in tough skin in a social group. its phenomenon seen around the world and its a proven social construct. That is why hazing is a part of many tight nit groups. Shared hardship often brings people closer. I know it sounds counter intuitive but its the natural process of the introduction of a new social group member to prove that not only does he have the heart to stick in there when its tough, to stay loyal to the forum, but to also be able to take honest criticism down the road when he is able to make something significant.