I'm not a good example of a Christian, to my own shame - I falter often in my conduct. The prime Christian dedicates himself constantly to the virtues of love.

As I've said before, Christians believe that humanity is naturally evil. By becoming a Christian you admit this and ask God for forgiveness, which He gives freely. At the same time, He also empowers us so that we do not have to sin again (although we typically do so anyway, to our shame). He begins to help us through various means in our daily struggle of dedication through love.

This God-given growth separates us from others... and He does not help others simply because they do not want it.