ok i fixed the problem, thanks for any help i received.
3DRichard... sposiba! :]]

so what i did was,, i exported the model as pandasoft X from 3dsmax, imported into med,, and i had that 1k's vertex count,, so i exported model from MED into 3ds and imported back into 3dsmax,, now after i welded all vertexes together i exported it into 3ds format again,,, imported into MED and wholah,, it works!