i really like to start learning this
i hate the fact im scared of it
im scared that i could be to stupid for it i really want to make games
not first person shoter games as there all the same
but 3rd person games

i need a good tutor and something to kick me up the bum to get started
what should i do please

Open the Manual and start reading.

what part i did and got confused

Look through the AUM's, look at AU, look through some tutorials and User Contributions. All these can show you code of which others have written and you can read through them and learn off that. The manual will help you a ton, probably the biggest part of help you can get. Look off of the Template scripts, and when your in WED and create your own "New A5/A6 Template Script" then look off that and see how they load levels and show strings, things of that nature.

But if you have any particular questions (besides how to make a game) you can ask in the proper forum here and the community will try to answer your question(s) at their best.

ok if i get tuck ill ask here
ill start makeing a small basic 3d level first for my player to walk on