Relationship parameters

Hello, what are your relastionship parameters you think are important for you, to get a sucess date or relatioship?

Sexual factor + Psic Factors ( lier, honesty, fidelity, intelligence + Funny etc..)

Name everything you think its important.

Im doing this studdy because of a programme im doing, and i want to know your opinion.

I will probably later open a Poll

Uh... okay...
Steampunk-interest, medieval-interest, emigration-desire, passion-in-at-least-one-thing-she-likes, not-bi (I'm prejudiced here), daring-to-dye-her-hair-black/blue/red/purple/green/x, like-to-wear-costumes-at-events.

wow joozey's list is pretty good except for I am opposite on the bi view, I love a girl that doesnt mind playing with another girl. i like crazy hair, someone who doesnt mind sex with the lights off with blacklights and loud rock music in the background. I like a girl with great critical thinking skills and doesnt get upset when, but encourages the questioning of tradition. It's nice to find a girl that is willing to have fun once in a while and go do something a little insane.

I don't blame the bi part, as I'm apparently the only one having bad experience with these. They tend to be... more sexually free than I prefer myself. It more than often leads to desires I can not help fulfilling.

Oh, a desire for tidy nomenclature is a pre. She'd better like the gentleman's way. The Steampunk gentleman I pretend to be, at least.

beautifully put.... but uh... huh? I have no idea what the last half of your post said..

dunno what your problem is, lostclimate... i got it. and i understand joozey's pov. but anyway.

ermmmm, lemme see. i am in a relationship right now. i KNOW that i have certain interests and ideals i stand up for, but i can't quite put my finger on 'em. most important thing is reliance, sex is secondary. nice, but not THE most important aspect for me. similar interests (industrial / metal music, art, philosophy (kinda) and stuff like that) are desirable, but not entirely necessary, as long as she's at least kind of interested in my hobbies (which she is).
most important thing to me is that she's interesting. not a person you'd meet every day, not a normal boreout, not a dumb barbie who refuses to think about things or to doubt anything. i dig intelligent chicks.

"Oh, a desire for tidy nomenclature is a pre" I think i just need to brush up on my vocab, because I dont know what that means

It was sort of a pun. Nomenclature is the definition and naming of things, or the principles/procedures behind them. But the word is not very known. Hence I used it.

unknown words ftw.

cool, learned something new. the word sounded familiar but I didn't remember the context in which i heard it before.

Yah Im asking this.. because i want a list of things.. You can "look for" when on a date.

A List of thing that you guys think its necessary to be in someone , so you like her/him.

- Honesty
- Funny´
- Cute
-Preety
-Famouse
-Intelligent
-Lier or not
etc...

Im doing a program...

You download (like MSN), and you fill your levels and details and what you like or not, and how much important that is to you.. And the program then runs on background, and everytime if finds something with an match (defined by user between 50 and 99% for example) it will notify in a task bar ballon for example..

You then can also find persons in free mode, like face book or anyother, and the persons you dont like you simple say to remove, and they will never be shown again. Also when you remove it, the program will know, why you remove it, and will gather the data from that user, and search if another users also did that. And that will add some kind of filter on your side, so persons like that wont appear so often.

So basiccaly i need to know what things you think are important that i can add to that list. So we can get a closer match.

Facebook , or hi5, hasn0t that kind of features..
but for example, in gay profile systems , i know you have alot more of specifications and things so you can match better someone with you.

like: body (fat or not), sizes, fetish, and many other things, i cant remember.


Good things is that:

The program , will know what you like or not, based on your searchs, (on free mode).

Because i have to think global, i have to take in account sexual preferencies and the sexual orientation will be not told by the user ( because most times users dont want to say...) buut the program will know, because it will count the number of males or females you view, and give you a sexcual orientation desviation,that will be useful because, then only other gays for exanple you be able to see you, and heterosexuals not (this is kinda good in a way) (though this is an option feature)

You will able to search persons by their popularity (persons which have an high number of profile (views*0.2 + sexyappealicons*0.80) for example.

Im doing the tables to mysql and the more info i have better..

so you're basically programming a dating site, did i get that right?

poor ugly lasses

hmmm, interesting thread, dont know about it though because based on my experience, what women say they want and what they actually want are two different things, they may list:
-tall handsome
-succesful
-clean
so on and so forth and yet you see them with the opposite and you'll never figure out why, once your confident in yourself, cocky AND funny with it and dont allow everything a woman says to affect you then your well on your way to getting tonnes of chicks thats just my opinion and what i've proven, am quite ok in terms of girls, lol doubt what i said will aid your system though

honestly, i have no idea. im in a relationship for almost 4 years now, a relationship i consider to be blatantly perfect. its not the feelings or hormones, since neither she nor me have alot of those.

sure, there is this feeling of unconditional love, but that does not equal our happiness. instead, its the knowledge of security, trust and apreciation that binds us together.

im not entirely sure how to make my views clear. im a diagnosed misanthrop, so im not really good with people (go figure) but i think the fact that my girl is not a hormone bomb and a rather calm, extreme logical person helps. i hate those hormone driven idiots that put idiotic feelings over plain and simple logic. i also hate jealousy, obviously, especially if undeserved.

in the end, i want the same as all of you... whatever that may be...

Try okCupid, MMike.
Their matching system is quite advanced and complex.

I completely agree with spike that the relationship has to be a logical match and not some infatuation. I get annoyed by these "I dont know what I'd do without you" lines that tween little girls cry over, I'd prefer that my relationship be based on a love thats a bit more mature and caring instead of just another thing to be over dramatic about.

word.

yes its a sort of dating site, but will also be very powerful i have already some algorithms, i have to try then a test version to verify persons interacting..

even in okcupid, you have to say if your gay pr not..
on this one you dont need that because thats intuitive from user, which will check how many times a guy searchs for other guys in a row of 5 , interlaced or not.. and that you give a sort of status, and will find other people equal, and they dont need to assume anything. at all, but they can if they wish.. But thats not the only thing...