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This is a double-edged question, really. Do I feel I do? Definitely not. Do I try? Yes.



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I'm not going to necessarily condemn those who try to be the "best Christian," mostly because I can't really know



You contradict yourself, in one post you say you try, in the next you say have to would not condemn those who "try".


Christians who sin without remorse are walking contradictions, clearly seen and mocked by this world, and put Christ to an open shame. They think the world loves them and embraces their "tolerance", but mostly the world despises them for their compromises. Of these Peter speaks about in the following verse:

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While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage.
2Pe 2:20 For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning.
2Pe 2:21 For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.
2Pe 2:22 But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.


And the writer of Hebrews sums it up nicely.

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For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost,
Heb 6:5 And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,
Heb 6:6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.



Of course, everyone must judge where they are with God. I have no idea about the status of others' soul, and I hate to admit it, but generally I dont care. If someone's going to hell purposely, and they have already heard the gospel and believed, personally I wouldnt waste much time on them. Why should I? They already have the facts to make a decision, and they are old enough to do so.