@AlbertoT:
okay, i can see what you mean, given you have a problem with how our God supposedly acts. i wouldn't call the Catholic church the "most important Christian community", though. if they were so important there would've been no Reformation, and Protestants are Protestants because they feel that being a better Catholic has no relation to being a better Christian (and at times can be even distracting and detrimental).

@ventilator:
Jesus is quite clear that there isn't marriage in heaven ("what happens when there are seven brothers, and the first is married, dies, and his widow marries the second, who dies... who has her in heaven?"... see Jesus' response in Matthew 22). many things will be different, including our minds (there will be no sin). i don't want to lose the uniqueness of many of my relationships and the special uniqueness of my relationship with a particular girl who's very special to me, but i trust that in heaven it will be all good, and we will be changed such that it's all good.

julz