Here is a good bit of info for something that is a bit more accurate than just using a single grey scale image for the normal map.
I myself tend to model out most of my normal maps...it takes a bit longer (not too much since you don't have to worry about topology or polycounts) and then create the normal map from the actual mesh itself.
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