I'd like to go back to a point I already made which is, if she's not guilty of anything, she would very easily be able to sue her ex for libel and win.

She's not doing that, so the odds that she's actually a totally innocent victim is extremely low.

This pretense of "Oh, we can't prove anything therefore we should just ignore her because its none of our business. If you disagree, you're a sexist and support harrassment and stalking!" is ridiculous and pretty disappointing as well.